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    In the mood...

    I submit to a very nice Switch. I can tell when he needs me to top, sometimes he just asks.

    Do you ever find that when you're in a certain mood determines which role you'd rather be in?

    I find that if I'm in a good, upbeat mood I'm much better at being a Top. I don't initiate being the Top, but I can get into the frame of mind when I'm feeling fine. I can command as much as he wants/needs me to.

    If I'm very sad, upset, frustrated...I want him to Command, I need him to. There is no energy there for me to be in charge. I can do as I'm told, serve, be disciplined. I just can't Top.

    Wondering if any of you understand the state of emotions coinciding with which role you play? If there is a connection?

    ~mishka {R}

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    For me definitely. When I'm down it's much easier to be in a sub role. Part of that is wanting someone to lean on when you're sad, I guess. Also because in those times I feel more vulnerable, more needing assurance as well, so it fits in better with a sub mindset. I find it hard to Dom if I'm quite down.
    Mit diesem Herz hab ich die Macht
    die Augenlider zu erpressen
    ich singe bis der Tag erwacht
    ein heller Schein am Firmament
    Mein Herz brennt

    - Rammstein

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    my reply

    for me it depends on my mood if i am in a pissed off mood or if i'm mad at my Master then i need to top but if i'm in a good mood i prefer to sub to him.
    the reason that if i'm not in a good mood i top is because if i'm subing to my Master and i tell him to Foff or something like that i get punished for it but if i'm toping i can let out all my anger and not have to worry about getting punished for it
    we have been threw the fire and it nearly tore us apart but the bond we have is stronger then steel it's
    a bond of the heart.

    Babygirl

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    I prefer to be submissive when I'm angry or whatnot. I find myself being a top more often then not when I'm depressed..... to try and cheer myself up.

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    doublestandards

    Hi....I hope you get this OK. Its My first message here and I don't really know the etiquette.....so I hope I'm not stepping on My own dick this first time.

    So hi and have a gr8 weekend.....

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    i'm not very experienced yet. but but usealy when i'm down or mad i like to be the sub those are the time i either need reasurance or to be put in my place.

    on the other hand when i'm happy i enjoy being the dom. those are the time i just enjoy being in control and have my way with the other person.

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    The only mood that makes me want either is when I am stressed. When I am stressed I love to be spanked. It is a great release. Apart from that its whatever I am in the mood for but that mood is not necessarily tied to any emotion. Its just whatever works at that time.

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    I agree, When I am pissed off though I am in the mood to be on top, but other times I feel submissive.

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    it has nothing to do with my mood surprisingly, and more to do with the effect i want, if my boyfriend is being soft or sweet and i want him to be more dominating well i grab him by the hair and act like a brat, he reacts to this immediately usually otherwise its a case of gender, females get my sadistic Domme side, males get my submissive side. what can i say... i at heart want nothing more than to please my Dom and watch a cute submissive squirm under my touch/gaze

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    I definitely agree with you FaerieLytes, Men get the Sub and women get Dom. But sometimes, I do like to switch it up with my master, and punish him for once.

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    This is a delicate dance, She has been Dom for the last song and enjoying the hell out of it. The song has ended and now she wants to be the sub. I know this and am making her wait as in limbo. It is like a purgatory for her and I know this. Making her wait and wonder when I am going to demand her to strip, assume the position and, place the blindfold on her. I will be leaving for 3 weeks and she knows this, the wonderment of when I will be placing her at my mercy. I am pushing the envelope, yet for the next 3 days I will let her know I am her Master. She will not forget while I am away.

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