Mistress Jade's Thread

[Jadetiger]

This thread was actually an idea I got from my pet when he asked me if I conversed with other dommes. While I have had private PM conversation with other dommes I have never really discuss this beloved pet with them. I would love advice and guidance from those of you who have male pets. How you task them and how you punished them for failure. I would love ideas and stories from both men and women who top men. Your favorite tricks and treats you give your male slaves. :help:

I also have am ulterior motive. I wish to assign my pet a task where he is given to another Domme or Dommes to service. His trust and safety are a great concern for me so I want to get to know you ladies. This request is only for the ladies. My pet does not want to be shared with males.

I am sure my pet will wish he never asked the question.

Below is an early task I assigned my pet that he performed extremely well with the right incentive. Please feel free to give me suggestions and advice.

Pet Task
Okay Pet,
Your mistress has another task for you but only after you complete the task she has already assigned you. Your mistress is obsessed with that tight ass of yours. You will continue to please me by performing my tasks. Your mistress enjoys having a horny beast like you at her command.

Now my precious pet, your mistress wants you to place a cockring at the base of your cock and one around the head of your cock. She then wants to lube your ass with your finger and imagine it is my finger inside your ass. I will require a picture to prove you are being obedient. When your cock is hard and the rings are tight I want you to image me sliding a second finger inside your. Then I want to you force a second finger inside your ass. Image your mistress ass fucking you with 2 fingers and teasing your swollen and aching cock with her tongue. When your need and pain are great I want you to remove the rings and impale yourself on a butt plug. I wish proof that you have completed to my request. I than want you to lube your hand and stroke your cock. Pretending it is your mistress’s wet hot mouth devouring your cock. You can then cum inside my mouth.

[slavelucy]

*reads with interest*

In conjunction with your other thread, this is fascinating, to get to read both sides of a switches DS life and motivations is a real privilage, i have always had some difficulty understanding the whole switching thing, so this is great!

i hope you don't mind me reading it even though i am not remotely dominant.

sl

[Jadetiger]

*reads with interest*

In conjunction with your other thread, this is fascinating, to get to read both sides of a switches DS life and motivations is a real privilage, i have always had some difficulty understanding the whole switching thing, so this is great!

i hope you don't mind me reading it even though i am not remotely dominant.

sl

No I don't mind. Input from everyone is welcomed. Being a switch I find it just as interesting reading about subs and Doms. LOL Your post was awesome and I knew you could do it. Stopped counting after 10. Dreams of a day like that in her near future.

[Ranai]

Like lucy, I've read your post with interest. Can't offer favourite tricks or treats... what this thread needs is input from people who aren't as ignorant about online D/s as I am. I find those threads that give glimpses of relationships with online communication interesting, because they actually show examples.

My guess is: There are probably heaps and lots of online D/s options that work for either sex.

Okay, one idea that is more a mental thing.....Who came up with the idea to call your pet 'pet'? Maybe an assignment you could give him is to write a text telling you what it means to him be called 'pet' by Mistress Jade. Which connotations this word has for him and how he feels about them. To be published here if you approve of the text. Also, if it pleases you, it would be interesting if you added a few words on what this form of address means to you. It's great to have a glimpse of both sides of the relationship.

[Jadetiger]

Ranai,
Your idea is an excellent one. I know from experience that mental tasks can be very hard but extremely rewarding. My mental task as a slave brought me much closer to my master as well as the people on this forum. I am new to this as well. I am much more in touch with my Domme side than my Sub side so I need all the help I can get on both fronts. You have a keen insight and any more suggestions or input would be greatly appreciated.

Mistress Jade

[slavelucy]

I know from experience that mental tasks can be very hard but extremely rewarding.

i agree, although i think they can be as helpful in focusing the mind on submission as they are rewarding.

Wontworry doesn't set a huge number of mental tasks as we spend quite a lot of time discussing many elements of DS on an intellectual level in the natural course of things...but i remember once, following some unfortunate incidents (not connected with him), i was seriously questioning the whole submissive thing, to the point where i found it very difficult to even carry out my tasks (yeah, i'm NOT perfect, you see!). He asked me to write four sentences on my inner thighs when i was going out, that answered three specific questions, and then to write a short assignment on it in terms of why i picked the sentences and what i thought about them. The whole thing helped me LOADS, which was the point, and, oddly, i found it equally if not more humiliating than many other things we'd done, which is always good.

Anyway, i'm not suggesting mental taks have to go to those lengths necessarily, but wanted to add that, yeah, i agree that they can be really helpful and rewarding and make one stop and think rather than dashing through their DS lives.

Oh, and if you wanted to hear anymore details of the aforementioned assignment, feel free to PM me.

sl

[Jadetiger]

Slavelucy,
I must admit I have not been assigning many mental tasks either. I should not leave any stone unturned in my pet's training. And yes I PM'ed first thing this morning.

Ranai,
Thank you for all of your PM's. You have given me so many new ideas on how my pet can pleasure me. It also pleases me to know that his cock will swell and throb just thinking about what we ladies are discussing in private.

Pet,
Nothing pleases me more than to know how hard you are waiting in anticipation and an apprehension for what will happen to you next. Remember no cumming without permission pet. You do not want me to be displeased. Remember to review your tasks for the week. You only have until Saturday to complete them.

And for everyone’s viewing pleasure I have posted one of my pet’s task for the week. I will update on whither he was successful or not. If we are lucky there may be some nice pictures to pick from. If he has been extremely good manslut I will share some of his more difficult tasks and pictures.

Task 1 - Butt Plug Training (long term for the next 4 weeks starting 031305 through 041005)

Week 1 – 031305 through 031905 wear 5 days out of the week.
You will wear your small butt plug for 1 hour in the morning. I want to clean your ass out before inserting the butt. You may set your clock and get up early to perform this task or you may perform the task while you are at work. The decision is yours. In the evening you are to wear your medium butt plug for 1 hour. Pictures if you can. Verbal (chat) or written (email or PM) descriptions required. We will discuss your progress at the end of each week and adjust the schedule if necessary for the next week.

[Jadetiger]

And for everyone’s viewing pleasure I have posted one of my pet’s task for the week. I will update on whither he was successful or not. If we are lucky there may be some nice pictures to pick from. If he has been extremely good manslut I will share some of his more difficult tasks and pictures.

Task 1 - Butt Plug Training (long term for the next 4 weeks starting 031305 through 041005)

Week 1 – 031305 through 031905 wear 5 days out of the week.
You will wear your small butt plug for 1 hour in the morning. I want to clean your ass out before inserting the butt. You may set your clock and get up early to perform this task or you may perform the task while you are at work. The decision is yours. In the evening you are to wear your medium butt plug for 1 hour. Pictures if you can. Verbal (chat) or written (email or PM) descriptions required. We will discuss your progress at the end of each week and adjust the schedule if necessary for the next week.

My pet did fairly well on his task morning task. He reported on his compliance with his morning task on a regular basis. His evening task was very much lacking in obedience. I have noticed this happening more and more. He seems to get excited and loses track of his complete assignment. I have been tasking him quite a bit.

I have gone to a format of giving him all his tasks for the week ahead of time. I believe he is losing his focus because he wants to get to the other tasks. My question. Should I cut back on his tasks as a discipline until he learns to follow instructions or should I start to associate a punishment for when he doesn’t comply with his assignments?

He does seem to be making a habit of adjusting his tasks at the last moment when he has plenty of time to review them and bring up his concerns so they can be modify. I find that I am reminding him to review his tasks so I can get them modify in a timely manner. Then still having to adjust them when he starts to perform them.

I do believe this may be normal in a new relationship but I want to get this resolved. This is a habit I do not wish to encourage.

I also need some examples of acceptable rewards. I have been told that mine may be too generous and could be seen as submissive.

Mistress Jade

[AndrewBlack]

Should I cut back on his tasks as a discipline until he learns to follow instructions or should I start to associate a punishment for when he doesn’t comply with his assignments?

The two are not mutually exclusive, perhaps both would be the best strategy? Are you making things too complicated or perhaps setting things that are too dificult? Is there also unaceptable disobedience?

[Wontworry]

I also need some examples of acceptable rewards. I have been told that mine may be too generous and could be seen as submissive.

Now that's a tricky one because a true submissive must surely be rewarded by further pain and/or humiliation, which can get so confusing that perhaps it's better not to go too far down that road. In my experience a reward is exactly the same as in the vanilla world. Something the person really wants but is unable or not allowed to have except when they deserve it.

For instance, while I was away this week lucy had some severe hassles (not Ds related) to get through. On my return I looked over what she had done and was so impressed and proud at how she had handled everything that I gave her what is currently (possibly always will be) her ultimate reward. She was allowed to wear her collar while she carried out today's tasks. Now on its own that may not seem much, but it is something very special to her/us and therefore I only allow it on extremely rare occasions when I am not physically with her.

I think this is how it should be with any submissive. Rewards should be few and far between, should be deserved rather than given for minor successes (for which only encouragement and praise should be given), and should be something that is special to that submissive.

[Jadetiger]

The two are not mutually exclusive, perhaps both would be the best strategy? Are you making things too complicated or perhaps setting things that are too dificult? Is there also unaceptable disobedience?

Andrew,
You have brought of some very good issues that I need to consider. Although the increase in tasks were at my slave's request it may be that it is more than he can handle. The 'misunderstandings' did not start to occur until recently and frankly took me by surprise. He seemed quite excited about the increase and higher level of his tasks but I must agree that they may be too difficult or complicated. All disobedience is unacceptable unless there was a true misunderstanding. My problem with these misunderstandings is that he has had plenty of time to get clarification or to confirm his interpretation of his tasks ahead of time. Your thoughts on my situation have been a great help. I truly appreciate your input. Thank You Jade

Now that's a tricky one because a true submissive must surely be rewarded by further pain and/or humiliation, which can get so confusing that perhaps it's better not to go too far down that road. In my experience a reward is exactly the same as in the vanilla world. Something the person really wants but is unable or not allowed to have except when they deserve it.

For instance, while I was away this week lucy had some severe hassles (not Ds related) to get through. On my return I looked over what she had done and was so impressed and proud at how she had handled everything that I gave her what is currently (possibly always will be) her ultimate reward. She was allowed to wear her collar while she carried out today's tasks. Now on its own that may not seem much, but it is something very special to her/us and therefore I only allow it on extremely rare occasions when I am not physically with her.

I think this is how it should be with any submissive. Rewards should be few and far between, should be deserved rather than given for minor successes (for which only encouragement and praise should be given), and should be something that is special to that submissive.

WW,
Thank you for your example. While pain is not my slave's passion he does crave some humiliation but his greatest pleasure comes in performing the tasks I assign. Or so that has been the case so far. Your advice on limiting rewards is extremely helpful. Although I truly believe he deserved the one he has received. I will not be so generous in the future. Your thoughts as well as Andrew's have given me the direction in which to proceed. Thank You Jade

[Jadetiger]

I must admit it has been awhile since I posted and many things have happened. My favorite pet has moved onto explore his submissivness by making himself available to many dommes. I wish him luck and happiness as he moves into a more extreme experience.

My other pets are currently transitioning into to real life relationships. I am sure their master and mistresses will be as pleased with them as I was.

So now Mistress Jade needs to find herself a couple of online pets. I am looking to take on 1 female and 1 male to train to please me. Please realize that you may be required to play online together so if this is a problem do not respond. I will also expect you to post your completed tasks in this thread along with pictures in the picture thread when I command you to do so. I do not except you to post your face!!! A web cam is a plus but not required.

You will need to filling out a Submissive checklist and email it to me a to jadetigerdragon@hotmail .com. Please make sure you answer honestly. Add a paragraph describing yourself and your needs. The subject should read “Inquiry”.

If you need assistance fill out the checklist list just send the paragraph about yourself with your questions. I will be glad to assist you.

Mistress Jade

[Ruby]

Hi Jade,

Congratulations on your decision to acquire a few more pets. You are a lovely mistress and I'm sure whomever you take under your wing will be treasured.

Request: May you please save your checklist to text or RFT formats for those without Microsoft Word and add the new file(s) as new attachments? It is a wonderful checklist for all of us.

To your success,

Ruby
XXX 000

[Jadetiger]

Ruby,
Your wish is my command.

[Jade's bitch]

I'm now starting my online training as Jade's bitch.

I did not going looking for my current Mistress, or an online relationship at all, but after a couple of misunderstandings of what the top post in this thread was really looking for and the Mistress explaining my error, she looked at my checklist and thought I might be trained to please her.

I hope to please her and in doing so allow my submisive side to florish.

Happy to be:

Jade's bitch

[Ruby]

Jade's Bitch,

Welcome to the family and may you and your mistress have a wonderful adventure.

Ruby
XXX OOO

[Caitlin]

Welcome Jade's Bitch.

You are very fortunate to have Jade as your Mistress.

May you have a fun and exciting times together

Caitlin

[Jadetiger]

Ruby and Caitlin,
Thank you for welcoming my pet. I can't wait to share him with you.

Mistress Jade

[Caitlin]

Ruby and Caitlin,
Thank you for welcoming my pet. I can't wait to share him with you.

Mistress Jade

*rubbing hands together* Ooooo yummy.

Thankyou Jade

[Jadetiger]

Ladies,
We is a wonderful man with a very healthy appetite for play and a stimulating imagination. I am sure you all will love him.

Mistress Jade

[Jade's bitch]

The Mistress said she enjoyed my e-mail after our chat this morning and I was to post here:

After we finished I got all my toy bags out and decided that since I was
not the one deciding what toys would be used during our sessions I should
get used to ones I rarely used. So, out came the ball-gag, flogger(too
soft, too heavy)and c-pins. First ball-gag. I used the screw nipple
clamps first but had to resort to the slinding one for my right nipple,
when they kept coming off. Couldn't decide between silacon dildo with
bullet vibe or Faithful (inflatable plug). Laid out both with condom and
lube.

Tried flogger, much effort, little pain, except my arms being very tired.
Changed to head down ass-high spankable position and work for about ten
minutes with a paint stir stick. Which worked well at warming me up. I
also used a two-piece leather strap(for horses) almost totally sewn
together. I was pretty deep into subspace by now. So my mind was a little
muddled and couldn't think of what to use next, but I thought what would
Mistress want? Something I feared. c-pins about ten down in my nether
region. sack, thighs, stopped with the last one on my groin. It really
wasn't that bad.

I put Faithful at the gates and tried to relax since she has to be blown up a
bit to keep form while being slid into my ass. Think relaxing thoughts
little sub. Just a little bit further. Then POP, oh isn't that a special
feeling when everything slides into home.

Of course by now I'm drooling a bit by now. I am stroke-pause so the spams
in my ass start to elongate the airbladder trying to get that I'm being
fucked by Mistress in the ass you bitch feeling. It was sub-par and my
Mistress said "well let's try out the big boy on that tight little ass" and
up went the dildo when it got to about the last inch I turned the vibe to
high and found a spot where I could rock back and forth bringing Mistress
fucking me thing as close as I can get to real.

Although I was using Astroglide on my hand it had reach that gluey stage
and everything came to a halt while I rolled on my side add tried to get
some of the drool into my left hand. Which I was very keen to match up the
sensations with my fanasy which Mistress gave me when she talked of the new female sub sucking on me while the Mistress fuck my ass while I couldn't
move.

Mistress was unhappy with me, or not, she had me slow down to almost a stop the first TWO times I was close to cumming. Then she said I could, but had to finish within a minute. I came spilling all over my upper body. I'm
sorry Mistress, but you said something at this point but I missed it(might
have been "gather all the cum and eat it, slut"). So I cleaned up with a
towel. I'm sorry if I misunderstood you, Mistress (head bowed)

The problem, you may not see it as a problem is I had completely forgotten
about the c-pins. Which in the thrashing about had twisted alot. I
started to take them off. "Oh, joy" is not what I said at this point as
the c-pins bit me again.

I again wish to thank Mistress for putting me in such a good state of mind
to try different things so that I had an enjoyable afternoon, except for
the c-pins on the thighs which hurt like the dickens.

Jade's bitch

[alura]

Hello, Jade's bitch. I am a close friend of Jade's (she will acknowlege that) and I just wanted to say hi and welcome to the forum. Jade is an awesome mistress....and no I don't speak from experience but I do speak from experience. As in....I am not, nor have I ever been, associated with Jade as other than a friend...but I can tell you that as a mistress...there is none better.....you are in awesome hands, bitch. Welcome.

[Ruby]

Jade's bitch,

You did wonderfully. Subspace and thinking rationally don't always mesh.

The most important thing was that you gave it your best shot. Mistakes or no, miscommunication or no, that's all anyone can ask of you.

An excellent note detailing your struggles and accomplishments. Well done.

Ruby
XXX OOO

[craftygirl]

Hi Jade's bitch and wow!

What a nice series of introductory posts. Looking forward to getting to know you more.

crafty

[Microwave0ven]

Hallo, Jade's bitch, nice to meet you, hope you enjoy your stay. From what I know, Jade's very.. how should I phrase it.. devious! that's the word! You'll have fun and learn a lot, I'm sure.

[Caitlin]

Holy dooly Jade's Bitch, that was some write up.

It seems you will serve your Mistress well.

You're in such deliciously wicked hands ...enjoy

[albear]

Hello Jade's Bitch

What a report! Lovely

[Misanthrope]

Hey Jade's Bitch,

Well done on the challenge. It might not have been perfect, but you did a very good job, and sometimes, it's what you learn from a task that is more important than the task itself. And the bottom line is you tried, and you were obviously very focussed on pleasing Jade.

See you around. Misanthrope.

[redEva]

Hello, Jade's bitch, nice to meet you and to hear from you. I hope you will provide many enjoyable moments for your Mistress.

[Jade's bitch]

Thank you all for the friendly welcome. If Mistress' recent comments are accurate then it appears I will be "shared" with the forum. I'm sure that my attempts at humor will get me in the end. Also thank you Mistress for the nice comments and for accepting me as yours.

Jade's bitch