Oh this is a great thread... time to get it going again!

Nature or Nurture??? All I know is from my earliest memories i have had a need to please others, serve others and relinquish myself to others (sometimes this was not always a good thing).

When I found out there was a name for what I am, I was amazed. This meant I was not the only one out there like this!

I never could find myself in a fulfilling relationship, because there was always so much missing for me. Until the day I discovered D/s relationships. I must say, I slipped in with ease, grace and comfort.

No one taught me to be submissive... I feel I just am. The same goes for BDSM... I am discovering my limits in this, but that I had a natural draw to it. Some aspects much more than others. Pain levels differ from one act to the other. But the desire to express myself through pain & bondage has obviously also been very natural for me.

So there it is... not very scientific, but how I feel about my submission.

Master's tehya