You don't have to ooze fake confidence, or hide behind a curtain of perceived self-importance, you just have to be confident that you're enjoying what you're doing, and have the confidence in yourself to do these things. That's kind of what I meant. And sheesh, that's using the word confidence excessively! *wanders off to find a thesaurus*

*gets momentarily distracted wondering what kind of a dinosaur a Thesaurus is*