Quote Originally Posted by Just A Girl View Post
I'm waiting for Master to come online, and so I've come back to good old BDSM library to amuse myself while I wait.

Something a friend said to me the other day got me thinking...
Are all Subs damaged goods?

Since BDSM is considered to many to be out of the "norm", is their something that makes us sub girls (and guys) abnormal...

And further more... is it wierd that I quite like the idea of being damaged goods... I'm falling far too quickly for my new Master, and the thing I like about Him the most is that He is considerate to my flaws and limits, using them as a basis to work on. Without the things that make me damaged, we would really just be two people fucking rough, but it's in the way He handles my flaws that shows He really cares...

So what do you think? Can a submissive truely be submissive without being a little bit damaged to begin with?
I am not sure what Normal is anymore. FOr too many years i tried to be "Normal" and there was always something missing. FInally nearly 40 years ago, i said i dont care about being Normal, i am a submissive, and i love being submissive. Am i damaged goods. My Mistress L says i am a treasure to her. Yes she has to correct me and punish me for my failures, but she does it out of love for me and for my submissiveness. She has taken me much farther than i ever thought i could go as a submissive, and she promises me that i have much much farther to go.

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