New dom needing a little advice

[Silke]

*grins* I love this thread!!

[Tojo]

I declare this thead out of bounds to all subs....

Hey I'd be asking myself 'why won't my imagination cooperate?'

To me half the fun is coming up with my own ideas. Things she won't read about on a forum or site- that's the challenge, apart from the 'who's the boss' side of things.

Keeping a sub guessing is half the battle, sure there's rooom for suggestions- as long you ask for them.

On the occasion I answer questions from Doms, I usually say that it's got to come from within. You have to have confidence in yourself- preferably supreme unshakeable confidence.

That's my not so humble opinion.
(BTW- sorry to disappoint anyone looking for what evil thoughts are in my head...)

Tojo