These are all great suggestions, but...I just want you to be yourself and have fun with this. You don't have to "be" perfect, just be yourself and we'll try out new things if you want to. I already love you, I'm already married to you, there is no need to impress me. You know me better then anyone else, so I have complete faith in you.

One of the hardest things to realize when learning about all of this, is the main thing...just have fun