More and more, recently, I find myself shedding tears when my Dom and I are intimate. Most of the time, I don't understand where the tears are coming from. I only know that the feelings I am experiencing at that time are so intense, they seem to need a form of "release".

The first time this happened to me, I was somewhat confused, to say the least. It was after a fairly intense scene, and I had gotten up to get something to drink. As soon as I sat down, I just broke down and started crying. He came in and held me, asking if I was alright and telling me how much I meant to him and that he loved me. He was quite concerned as to whether he had hurt me either physically or emotionally, to which I assured him that I was fine, and that there was nothing wrong.

Since then, we have both learned that my tears and crying are part of what I feel for him and are not to be regarded as a negative aspect, but a positive one.