RedEva, thank you thank you, it's nice that messages like this can be worded in such a way to convey concern, help and in a non judgemental way at that. To be totally honest, I took no offense in anything that SL said, just TG and his 'apparent' concern which came across as more judgemental than concerned - at least in my eyes.Originally Posted by redEva
Just as aside, re: my Master - well, we agreed going into this that it would be online only and restricted to here only. I'm fine with that, it just gets a tad annoying cutting posts in twos and threes sometmes, thats why I thought I'd throw the 'suggestion' out there. What we do is very similar to the "New Subbie Task" thread happening at the moment, just very private. The joys of being anonymous!
As for hotmail and such, I certainly know how to open new accounts but as I said, the agreement was we keep within the bounds of BDSMLibrary and totally anonymous. Would I operate like this if we were to ever become anything more than text? hell no - that'd be stupid. But the expecatation and agreement is that we are text only, no pictures, no names, just the fantasy of it all and... thats all I want right now as my locality issue alone would be highly unfair to any prospective Dom or Mistress in the flesh.
I hope I've kinda made it a lil more understandable.
Minx