Change to the Forum rules

[Rabbit1]

I am sorry to hear about that orchid - and it is not right. If you would care to PM me with a few more details I can hopefully stop this from happening again.

cariad

yes if she will forward me a copy of the PM ---I will stop it cold

[Tojo]

Tojo,

Please send me all sites with information on bike washing if said sites include nude female bike washers.

Sorry, only girls in bikinis & wet Tshirts washing cars so far Oz....


Tojo

[Timberwolf]

"what has brought this about is I have had complaints ---about former members starting their own forum and instead of advertising some are PMing invatations to their new forums trying to build membership from this sites membership ---not a big problem but some of the ones they PMed did not appreciate it ---they do not wish to go anywhere else "

I must have missed the meeting where joining another forum meant I had to give up my BDSM Library membership.

[cariad]

Oh - I think we can go wherever we like Timberwolf - just not use the PM facility on this site to do cold selling for another.

Feeling pleased that I think I have at last 'got it'.

cariad

[Curious_1]

orchid..

If people PM you in the chat without asking that is against the rules. Just let me know

Curi

[Rabbit1]

"what has brought this about is I have had complaints ---about former members starting their own forum and instead of advertising some are PMing invatations to their new forums trying to build membership from this sites membership ---not a big problem but some of the ones they PMed did not appreciate it ---they do not wish to go anywhere else "

I must have missed the meeting where joining another forum meant I had to give up my BDSM Library membership.

it means no such thing ---it means do not use the site to advertise other sites if such information is not requested ----I am a member of many forums and sites ----but I do not PM you to join those sites ----if you want the information of some suggested sites I will be glad to give it to you but by my just PMing you unrequested information ----that is spam ----

[orchid]

thanks for your responses Cariad, Rabbit and Curious
unfortunately i deleted the message when i decided to ignore it
no big deal - i was wanted to know and now i do - next time, i will certainly forward it on
thanks again

[cariad]

Hugs - you, and anyone else who experiences unwanted PMs of any nature is always free to forward to them. This should be a safe place, and whilst we are not PM police, harrasment will not be tolerated.

cariad