Althea, I found my way into real time BDSM by beginning on sites much like this one.

If not for these opportunities to explore, safely, I would probably still be meandering from nilla guy to nilla guy, wondering what was wrong with me that a relationship just wouldn't work! I now know, there is nothing wrong with me. In fact, there is a whole like RIGHT about me!

*wicked grin*

Enjoy!