she needed to learn a lesson I agree but I also agree with cariad that piling on was not the way to treat someone with interest in the life.

The mod for this thread should have talked to her and stopped the piling on. Remember that a lot of the folks that are here are not doing the life in real life but only in their mind. Since fantasy in the life is a basic part of it all of us are guilty to some extent, whether we are Real lifers, onliners or just dreamers.

Hate to say this but "let he who has no sin throw the first stone"

Russell