Rabbit, I have perhaps had the privilage of getting to know you better than many people on this site. From our exchanges I can only say when you do find your 'right one' she will be a very fortunate and very happy lady.
In the meantime, I am taking care to follow your instruction to me at the end of my first training session "... and try not to ban uncle he is a good guy ---lol".
hugs
cariad