D/s outside one's marriage

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We didnt find it to be cheating, because it was allowed with consent for each partner. In the end it didn't work for us, and ultimately drove us apart.

[gloombunny]

I really should've been more clear in my initial post... I only meant to ask about the situations where partners don't know about the external D/s relationships.

As long as everyone involved knows what's going on and is OK with it, then there's no cheating or wrongdoing at all, as far as I'm concerned.