I don't get this infallible Dom thing. A man with so much pride it's comming out his ears. When I screw up I always apologise and do my best to make up for it. It doesn't have to mean groveling. Aknowledging the misstake, understanding her emotions and explaining how I feel about it and what I'll do to minimise it happening again is what I do.

One characteristic I do think is important for a good Dom is bravery, and that means an ability to critisize oneself in a constructive way. A man too proud to admit fault in a conflict is just a big coward.

*gets off soap-box*