since i am new here, the only way possible for me to participate and be useful is to be honest. As a 58 year old submissive masochist that has never had a lasting relationship with a Domme, since for about ever 1 true Domme thier are about 1000 subs male and female. It is my opinion You should remind him of this fact and that if You did not have sincere feelings for him you would not have tolerated this much. He needs to make up his mind what he wants in this life, if he walks out of a sincere relationship with a Domme he trusts and respests due to the fact he is not answering the call to duty, he is a fool. LTR are very hard to find they should be honored and relished by both parties, especially the sub.