:jawdrop: you really know how to ask a tough 1 huh?!we could all just yell out ideas of what WE like to do/have done, but that would just be what WE like. your sub will have her own likes needs. YOU will have your own likes and needs. the session would be much better and personal if planned by you. other than that polite rant, my only suggestion would be the bdsm checklist both of you fill it out then you use that info to plan a session