Hi Anniegal8 - no, there's no simple recipe or rulebook for how to run an online BDSM relation, any more than there is a clear definiton of who's entitled to be called a Dom or a slave. If you take your time to read around it, to talk to people you get to know here (some of whom will no doubt turn you on) and to build up friendships with people you really trust, you'll have it coming to you and somewhere along the road you'll find things you'd like to do for your online Dominant, whether it's by talk or by offline tasks, by communicating on webcam or by doing scenes with him, by sharing your wishes and ideas or any other way.

hope to see you around,

Louise