seems like i have forgotten to introduce myself here. I am a 26 year old dom. Until for approx a half year ago i had repressed all my "darker desires". It was not until i simply forced myself to search my own sexuality that i finally remembered all my desires (and there might be more in the dark corners of my mind). After making certain that this was what i wanted, i presented this to my gf. She freaked at first, but she is now more relaxed and have admitted having submissive tendencies (yep i am a very lucky man). So my situation atm, is that we both are new to this lifestyle, and are fumbling around not knowing where this will lead us.