Quote Originally Posted by cinna
For us, its something freaky white people do.
LOL! Maybe they have a point!

All joking aside those, that one comment has been SO insightful and revealing to me, so thanks for making it, it's really interesting to actually get the opinion of someone who KNOWS about black culture rather than hazarding a guess at it, and, yes, i can well understand the historical reasons for it becoming known as something freaky white people do.

Welcome to the forums, cinna, oh and i second what Kats said, i'm sure your way of dealing with BDSM in a different culture IS beautiful. Looking forward to hearing more about it.

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