Welcome ToV!

Just offering a subbie opinion on restraints... Sir and I have found that the local pet stores offer the best and most affordable products. Dog collars make wonderful wrist/ankle cuffs which work great. And, you can find leashes for attaching two or more dogs together which function well under the mattress for restraining.

As far as spanking tools... check out your local farm supply store. They have riding crops of all sizes and styles. Or, just go to your kitchen!!!

best of luck!