Sex, Sex, Sex... It's All About the Sex

[Ranai]

Aren't affairs about sex?

Sure. Did I write anything that said they weren't?

One of the reasons for affairs I would imagine is the need for excitement of a new person to have sex with.

Yes. And depending on how long the love affair lasts, the excitement of more than sexual intimacies shared, the excitement of getting to know each other better as individuals, the excitement of all sorts of shared experiences.

TG's initial post here refers to DS relationships. I'd say, a one night stand or a callguy/callgirl are All About the Sex. No relationship. So not to be underestimated: there's a demand for Sex Only.

It would be interesting to have input here from Pro Dommes and Pro Doms. Many of whom do scenes without sexual intercourse. Why? Because those Pros prefer to define their business that way: domination, SM, but no sex? Because of legal issues? Because the clients get off without intercourse? Because it's not all about the sex? Is there a significant amount of professional scenes where the clients don't get sexual satisfaction? (I hope these questions don't sound presumptuous; I'd really like to know.)