
Originally Posted by
Rhabbi
I am new to this forum, in fact to the entire online BDSM community. I have been living behind closed doors and with some trepidation that I would be discovered, but since I know who I am I thought I would be a little less secretive. If someone finds out who doesn't like who I am, they can just go away because I will not miss them.
I am a Dom who is currently feeling out a potential sub. This is, as always, an interesting process. It has been especially difficult for me these past years because of my desire to hide who I am. This new sub is open about who she is, and this adds a degree of difficulty for me.
If anyone has any advice for me I would be interested in hearing it. I am not proud and know that everyone can contribute if we give them a chance. In other words, any subs out thee are welcome to chime in also.