You host muches? How cool! I have been trying to figure out a way to find out if they have any here in Austin.

Quote Originally Posted by Dngnkeeper
Interesting statistic that. As one who has spent many a day hosting the new comers orientation for a munch I don't know if it quite matches my reality. While I haven't kept accurate records I think its probably closer to 6:1.
And you were talking about the subs who come back who complain about it not meeting their expectations. To me a true sub is one who has none; they have a mind wide open to every possibility and only their true No Nos are the guardians of their gates. But then again, that's just me.

As I said earlier on, every D/s relationship is different so how can you have set expectations? Except, as I said, for those things you absolutely CANNOT or WILL NOT do bar none? And even then, you should leave yourself open to the eventual possibility of facing those fears....you never know WHAT you might find at the end of the road.

To me it would take and spontenaety and creativity out of the whole relationship to have expectations. Then again, I'm a writer, so what do *i* know? I'm just spouting my opinion. Feel free to smash me if you disagree.