[The Dominant she seeks is probably one that is considered laid-back intelligent, and aware. These traits show the restraint necessary to be in control of another.[/QUOTE]

very interesting and insightful, Sir Russell. there is a young man at my work that i am incredibly attracted to and drawn to. i have wondered if he is into the lifestyle and then thought to myself, no way, hes too laid back and casual about everything! Now you really have my mind wondering...it will be harder to concentrate than normal when i get back to the office tomorrow!

great to see you are actively posting these pictures again. it is one of my favourite threads here - i never get in here enough. im going back to catching up now but wanted to post these thoughts before i forgot.

orchid