LOL, well I am not good at guessing games but I will assume, from both of your posts, that it has something to do with you both caring for each other very much.

That is the one things that comes across to me. And getting that "going in the same direction at the same time" thing is sometimes hard, in ANY kind of relationship. I think you are both doing fine and unlike some of the others I think talking and feedback is good. And Mysc, my opinion here, just needs to not be so hard on herself.

Good luck and if you want support or a cheerleader let me know, LOL.

Enjoy the forums both of you.