I wish there was something I could say to ease up your frustrations. I really do understand where you are coming from and how you feel.

It is extremely difficult to explain the dynamics of what being Submissive and being Dominant is. It is hard to place someone in that mindset when they have little interest in understanding it.

Like Sir Russel said though, keep doing submissive things for him. If it wasn't for me doing those small things to keep me satiated, I would have had to really think about staying in my relationship. He has even managed to destroy any bedroom play, by only doing the things he wants and being very satisfied with that, I end up being forgotten about. Now I have to figure out how to fix that.

He will probably never fully understand how I feel, but as long as that dynamic stays with us, I am content with it. There are no punishments, no rules, or rewards, just me doing what comes naturally, and he appreciates it.

Someone once told me that it may take years for someone who is not naturally drawn to the lifestyle (someone tell dynamicbuttler to cover his ears please) to become Dominant, and it is not a quick and easy process. That is something that I don't like to hear, but it is a fact that we have to deal with.

You know who you are and what you are, so take a step back, rethink and regroup, and don't stop being submissive. Dont give up and don't stop trying.

Or we can start a frustrated submissive thread and and bitch in it to our hearts content.