Quote Originally Posted by Ocean_Soul View Post
You keep telling him you like pain, how about showing him? Put on some nice nipple clamps while in bed and twist them around or whatever your thing is. And even if you enjoy it lots add a little to it for effect.
Oh, I've tried! But even doing something as simple as wearing a nice corset makes him cringe. He whines about how he's afraid I'm hurting myself until I just take the damn thing off. Honestly, I've worn corsets out to the dance club! They obviously don't bother me that damn much.

I don't know what to do with him. We got into a huge argument the other day about how he hasn't said one word about how much weight I lost this year. You know what he told me? "I'm afraid if I say something then you'll assume that I didn't like you before. And then if you gain it back you'll assume that I think you're ugly or something. Besides, I don't want to objectify you or anything." WTF. I've never behaved in any way that would make him think like this. I know his last girlfriend was a huge femi-nazi though so maybe she just totally brainwashed him. Why would you think you can't compliment your girlfriend on how she looks nice today? If I make the extra effort I want to hear about it! Gah. Like I said - I'm beating my head against a brick wall over here.

Anyway, thanks for letting me vent! Again...LOL