Any submissive mom's out there with small kids?

[His_pita]

Hi and welcome to the board alltiedup. This topic of how to incorporate D/s and children is something that is often on my mind. I will be moving in with my Dom next year along with my 14 year old daughter. We are both very aware of how we have to take things slow and not freak her out with our lifestyle. But, we also don't want to have to hide it and we know that as bright as she is it will come out that her mom isn't exactly like other mom's. I'm lucky that my daughter and I are very good at communicating with each other and I hope to make her understand the dynamics of D/s without having to give her more info then she needs. My biggest concern is making my Sir happy as his sub while keeping my daughter happy as her mom.

[alltiedup]

Well since I posted a couple of days ago I've been really thinking about this and I've kind of come to the conclusion that I will mainly be doing tasks without the kids around - which is hard because my youngest is only 3 and only goes out to pre-school two mornings a week. I still felt wierd walking around with nipple clamps on while making lunch, cleaning up, laundry and playing withe kids. When I was alone I felt great, very much enjoyed the sensation and thought about my hubby all afternoon but when I was around the kids it was hard to take my mind off it and I just didn't feel like I could fully enjoy the task. Anyhow, does that make any sense?

As for the sub/dom around the house we don't do anything openly. It's all a secret between the two of us when the kids are asleep at night... we have just started on the Academy and incorporating little things into life to make it a bit more interesting and keep the sex life going. One of my biggest turn ons is orgasm denial and I am not to touch myself without my hubby's permission. I like that - and it's something that doesn't involve much hiding from the kids but in my mind I know and it turns me on!!!

Anyhow, it sure feels nice to hear from fellow mom's because working a sub/dom relationship into your family life is hard and I kind of feel all alone with nobody around to talk to. Thanks for replying. Talk soon.