A bisexual switch question

[moptop]

It is all interesting, isn't it? Personally, I have tried cyber-domming a man but, as PainSister said, it was more of an intellectual exercise. With men, my nature is definitely sub. I have no desire to dominate a man.

I do not have much experience with women - I have been dommed in r/l and totally adored it. I do get strong fantasies about domming another woman. I have cyber-dommed a girl or two - and thoroughly enjoyed it, too. I am working on both of these

I don't think I could ever, ever switch with my dom. I do think I could switch with a woman - would have to be the right one. *looks round for her lovely Debs*

I have a sneaking suspicion that being bi is more likely to make you a switch. Whether that means you are more likely to be sub with one sex and dom with the other - I would expect there to be a tendency in that direction, yes. It is two aspects of a duality that most of us need to keep separate, for whatever reason. Practice might allow this separation gradually to disolve or lessen...

[Hime]

I feel kind of guilty admitting to sexism here, but honestly the idea of dominating a guy doesn't appeal to me. Other than that, anything goes.

[Hime]

I feel kind of guilty admitting to sexism here, but honestly the idea of dominating a guy doesn't appeal to me. Other than that, anything goes.

Revised! Since I posted that, I have met some hot submissive guys and very much changed my mind, and have lately been looking around for guy to domme. I think I was reacting more to the mental image I had of "submissive men" than I was actually listening to my own sexuality.

[leo9]

Revised! Since I posted that, I have met some hot submissive guys and very much changed my mind, and have lately been looking around for guy to domme. I think I was reacting more to the mental image I had of "submissive men" than I was actually listening to my own sexuality.

Learning is good. Malesubs do get a bad image, porn tends to present them as crawling wimps, and commercial porn is so focussed on the domme that they seem to reckon any slob will do to play the sub.