Yeah, Oz, come on. It wasn't that bad.

fallenstar, if you were willfully disobedient, then you get what you get. Just the way it's set up. But if you are genuinely struggling with this topic, just be open and willing to discuss and admit what your feelings and problems are regarding this. Your Dom should be understanding and helpful about it all.

And, if you're having trouble coming to orgasm (yeah, gratuitous pun right there), if you aren't sure why, please see your doctor to rule out any physical issues?

Best to you-
tessa