You have reminded me of someone I know. She was a very strong-willed, no-nonsense kind og girl. Friendly and understanding when you knew her, but you also knew not to cross her in any way, or face the wrath of Hades. She had a husband, two kids and a menagierie of pets. Then one day she got a new boyfriend who introduced her to D/s ... and she's now a (feisty) sub!

I'm not sure what this proves, but you brought it to mind!

TYWD