Quote Originally Posted by Rabbit1
LOL thanks Mad---my fur is pretty thick---I was just hoping to find adults on an adult board----too much to expect I guess
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I really hate to think every time I try to help some one that a third party will get involved and turn evey issue into a circus like this
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I am not shouting with larger letters as I sometime think you can not read the fine print--------
Rabbit,

I'm absolutely positive that comments, statements and bitching like these tid bits will not endear you to forum members.

You are acting in the role of site admin.
You don't have to defend Tiger nor get upset when members comment on their feelings. Nor should you be bad-mouthing members of this forum, in solo or in total.

I'm positve that closing threads because you are angry is like taking your football home and ending the game because you don't want to play.

I'm positive that you didn't ask for advice, but I'm going to give it to you anyway:

If you treat members of this forum with respect, they will do the same to you.

If you bitch and whine, you are setting an atmosphere where bitching and whining becomes the norm. If you blow someone eles's bitching out of proportion, people will take sides.

It's okay to make fun of yourself, but it crosses lines when you make fun of other people.

The best way to minimize strife is to acknowledge there is a problem and if you can, then fix it. If not, point to a higher power to fix it and step out of the way.

If you compliment people on things they do well, they will go out and do more things well.

That written, what can I find to compliment you about today?

You were mature enough to realize that people need to voice their opinions and be heard and that closing a thread because you were angry wasn't in the best interests of this forum.

I'm sure that you will continue to do your best so more members can come up with positive things to say.

A toast to your success,

Ruby