Hello and thankyou for joining the BDSM Library Forums!
My name is angel{HM} and I am a Greeter and Moderator here. If you have any questions to not hesitate to send me a PM. The members and staff are very supportive and are happy to help new members find their way.
Feel free to drop by the chatroom and also check out various section on the boards that interest you. We would love your contributions and thoughts to discussions.
May I suggest reading through the BDSM Lounge Section, there are some wonderful ideas in there, that may be suited to what you are after.
angel xx