Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
Oh & most of all- this is supposed to be fun for god's sake.

Tojo
Bingo. The question is do the words slut and whore feel good to hear to you. If they do great. If they don't, try something else. There aren't any set rules to BDSM just like there aren't any set rules to any relationship. It's all about what you and your partner like and have fun with.