well we met on sunday. a nice afternoon spent at the Royal Ontario Museum. He suggested it because it's a very public place and it is also crawling with security guards. i set my safe call for an hour after we met.

things went very well. we spent about 3-1/2 hours roaming and talking about the different exhibits. through most of the day he held my hand or my wrist (which i didn't mind) and a number of times he asserted his dominance reminding me not to just walk off, for making a smart assed remark and when, in the armour section, he grasped my hair and kissed me

there were a few make out sessions after that, one i pointed out was on a listening bench while the narrator talked about slavery :lol:

there was conversation about going forward. and at one point when we stopped for a beverage, he seemed deep in thought and so i asked him what he was thinking .. he told me that as much as he'd like to take me home for some alone time, he thought better of it because of my experience level and also because he wanted to take things slow because this seemed like a connection.

i have to say that i felt very comfortable. i have a couple of concerns. he seems to be very sensitive, the type that gets attached quite easily .. i'd be afraid that because this is my first experience that i'm not likely to find that "perfect thing" the first time out and that i will hurt him. the second is that my first thought is that he would not fit in well with my family or friends. i'm hoping i'm wrong about that one, because if it does become the "perfect thing" that would be very important to me.

anyway ... thank you all for your suggestions. i'm on my way, finally, to inner peace and happiness

innertemptress

p.s. i don't believe he posts here currently .. perhaps when/if we solidify things i will suggest he join.