I am guilty of topping from the bottom too. We just moved in together after having an online relationship. It is a whole new world being 24/7 and sometimes I find myself blurting things out that if I only stopped a moment and thought I wouldn't do. I also sometimes get myself in trouble by doing what I want because it honestly doesn't occur to me that I was suppose to ask him. All I know is it's hard and you got to be on her toes always thinking about what your doing.