Quote Originally Posted by bunkerchief
Aah so you are grooming the newbies and worried that I would upset that grooming. If they are really into BDSM then grooming is not required and exposure to a little hard edged thinking should be a welcome plus to their education.
again you show your ignorance.

Yes I have been a mentor to a few subbies (do you know what a mentor is?)

I agree that newbies should be made aware of all extremes... and it is not for me to make their decision for them. A mentor (or a person posting in a 'Knowledge Base' thread) describes or displays options - not describes his One-True-Way. You see, this is where the objection is - not what your (pathetic) tastes are - but you want to impose your beliefs on all others. You state your values as fact ... sorry buddy .... it aint true.