Could you go back?

[casie1124]

I don't know if I'd feel betrayed or resentful per se, but like the OP I would certainly be questioning things.

those feeling come from the lack of communication and refusal to do so. We have always been very open and honest about everything. We've never been the type to let a problem just sit in the back of our minds. We've always discussed and and compromised on any issues in our relationship that was bothersome to either of us. Thats why all of this is so hard for me to understand. With out those things this relationship wouldn't have lasted 6 years. Those are very important things that he has been until today unwilling to give to me. I resent him for not giving me the same courtesy I have given him which is honesty and communication in all things. I feel like he has betrayed my trust.