I came upon this site quite by accident. I signed up more out of curiosity than anything else. At the time I was struggling with a personal question in my life dealing with BDSM tendencies. I decided "what the hell, no one knows me here so I'll be as honest as I can and ask a question." Well it was mentally easier to post a question than I thought it would be.

What keeps me coming back is the honesty in replies and the ease at which other members have in making me feel welcome. They are friendly people and, I believe, sincerely want to help out. They have not made me feel self-conscious about anything and I appreciate that. Another reason is I find I certainly am not alone in some of the feelings, desires, emotions, and problems I have because of my interest in BDSM.

Had I had a friend whom I could have sat down with and discussed my issues with I probably would not have stumbled upon this site. I'm glad I did and I plan to use it as often as I can.

Thanks for having it available.