Quote Originally Posted by DungeonMaster6
Hi Mina and welcome to our group. A lot has been said already which I agree with. I just want to say this. Domination and submission is a mutual thing between two consenting adults. You said:"...VERY RARELY he will act towards me out of anger..." I'm here to tell you that a scene should NEVER be done out of anger.
Oh sorry if that was confusing, I wasn't talking about a "scene" (we don't really use that word) or anything sexual in regards to the anger thing. I meant in daily life sometimes he has lost his temper and done something, either verbal or physical.

Silke - I truly appreciate you sharing all that with me, and I can understand what you're saying. I'm also glad you have found someone who looks out for you like that, that's wonderful. I understand about consent, and I do consent to him doing whatever he wants with me, including the blood even if I have my doubts about it morally. Anyway, thanks and I hope to talk with you in the future

Rabbit - First of all, I love your avatar. The thing about the safe word is that I don't want him to feel like I don't trust him already. I'm also not sure if I would enjoy it as much if there was a safe word - that takes something away from it. I want it to feel slightly dangerous, I want him to have total control like that. Btw, what would be a good safe word to use anyway? I can imagine most safe words would just encourage him more. Thank you for your advice.