Quote Originally Posted by rooshoe View Post
This is something that existed in me before I even had a name for it. I knew I felt different, that I wanted - make that needed - to feel dominated, I just didn't know how to describe it. I didn't realize that dominant people existed; I usually just fantasized about faceless authority figures ordering me around.

Even though submission occurs in my head, I feel it in my body. When something/one makes me feel submissive, I get this warm, tingly feeling in my shoulders and I suddenly feel lighter. There's an indescribable connection that hits deep inside of me, even for just a moment. I don't think anything makes me that way; I simply am submissive.


very well said, rooshoe...i too subscribe to the "Nature Vs Nurture" aspect of D/s...i used to think it was a "need to be needed" type of thing, but it goes much MUCH deeper...it's inside me, it's what i am, not what i do....