What you mentioned, Silke, is so important. I mostly dont think that far, i always react so strong emotionally when this theme comes up, so my brain gets more than a lil clouded
What i forgot to mention is that in Norway we have a fusion between state and church. So if the head of the church and the church community in Norway dont accept gay people, that effect is quite tremendous on the believer.
But we are working on it, and the discussions that comes up about this is very much needed.