anal

[sisterhoney61 {RW}]

Master and I have done some anal play in the past, but not anal sex where He has penetrated me. I have IBS and my illness is so unpredictable that it would make anal sex more trouble than it is worth. Master understands what it is like to live with a chronic illness, so He has never demanded it of me for U/us to have anal sex. I think that maybe if I didn't have IBS W/we might've have tried it, but neither one of U/us really feels that W/we're missing something by not having anal sex.

[Kitten4DADDY]

I have to say that we both love anal. I get very excited when I hear he is going to take my ass. Normally I clean up for this and try to keep myself ready "just in case".

We don't use it as punishment. But in roleplay we do use it, in which I play innocent and beg him not too. Of course I am begging him to, please, please, inside my head. :P
I have to say it is one of my favorite sex acts. Personally I prefer he doesn't use lube. I like the ache it gives and I am so ready for it there is not need most of the time.

He would never make me orally to satisfy him after, unless he wears a condom. Which we do use on occasion for fun, but not on a regular basis. On the other hand he has no problem pulling out at that critical moment to spin me around and jack into my mouth or on my face. He finds this very thrilling and I find that it does arouse me to be used in such a way. This happens in our morning shower routine quite often.

[cierramike@shaw.ca]

i so agree with you. i myself love anal, done properly it can be too much fun.

[Sir_Russell]

No secret that I love anal. I remember a lady I become somewhat addicted to that love to have her ankles on my shoulders near my ears as I took her that way. I have to admit it was quite the powerful feeling to have her wrist tied to the legs on the other side of the bed. Enter her in this position was not easy but once there I had free range over the rest of her body and when I was ready to cum in her I would take great pleasure in trapping her legs with my arms as I pushed those legs down to her shoulders. God talk about tight.

[Wedjat]

If you're not used to it, the doer needs to TAKE THEIR TIME and go slow. Sounds like you might have had a brush with someone who was just too into their own thing, or too excited at the prospect to realize what was going on, to take the time for you to enjoy too. Apologies if I'm wrong, but I'll re-iterate what I said earlier in this post - use plenty of lube, and then a little more. Once one gets into it and learns to relax, you might be able to go ahead with just the lubrication available in the nearby port - if you know what I mean- but for beginners it probably just ain't enough. If he doesn't like it, well, tough, he isn't the one who's going to be screaming when they use the orifice for it's intended purpose the next day. I don't think a Dom worth his salt would want that for their beloved, either. Just sayin'.

[Isabella King]

Anal is all I get. My pussy is for teasing only and I have to admit that it drives me crazy at times...but also makes me wild and wilful and horny as hell. Fortunately I enjoy the whole process of anal.

I prefer to do my own enema but sometimes he insists and sex is always best on that day. It's not just about the act - it's a slow build up with an explosive finish and sometimes, if he's careful, he will satisfy himself and keep me wanting - I've lost count of the times I've sold my soul for the price of an orgasm

[openwide]

Does anyone else (who has a lot of anal sex) have trouble with gas the following day?

[Wedjat]

Those little urgings are definitely not something you take for granted. : ) It's a bit more, um, serious the day after, isn't it?

[Isabella King]

It's all in the preparation

[Sir_Russell]

Has your Dom pulled your hair hard enough to have you arch you back, tightens your grip on him. It also brings your neck and shoulder closer so that the Dom may bite and nibble on neck and shoulders

[icey]

is this a question for all,or someone in particular i wasnt too sure sorry so ive answered it anyway *g*

all the time whether its anal or not.i have long hair so it gives him plenty to grab hold of twist and then yank my head as far back as possible although instead of biting and nibbling he generally strangles me.... it sounds terrible put like that lol

[tydnchaynz{NSXX}]

goodness Sir Russell.......anal, hair pulling, biting, and nibbling of the neck and shoulders?? *swoons* hehehehe

Anal is like anything else in my opinion. For some it's the height of the sexual act, for others, down right a hard limit. To me personally, it's not just extremely pleasurable, it's also one of the most complete acts of submission. To have Him behind me, holding me down, and taking my ass is the same as me screaming "I"M YOURS!!" from the top of a rooftop. In the same context, it can also make me feel very much 'punished' if done by someone that has shown in some small way that he doesn't respect me or does not value the meaning that i place on it. *shrugs*

As far as preparation goes, if worked up to it, i don't require that much lubrication. If however, i am in a situation that i would consider to be 'punishment', all the lube in the world does not relieve the ache.

Again, it's different for each sub and i'm sure each Dom. One thing good about this lifestyle is that you can always find someone whose needs are similar to your own. You may also find someone (if you're lucky) who will help you 'push the envelope' and perhaps discover that you enjoy things you never thought was possible.

[rooshoe]

I love anal. LOVE it. It's an instant trigger for me - I can cum very quickly when my ass is penetrated; it's the only sex act that makes me cum exclusively without clitoral/other stimulation. However, it makes me feel extremely vulnerable, and that's a rather difficult feeling that i love and hate, so it's easier for me to handle having something in my ass if i play with my clit to somewhat take my mind off the sensation.

That being said, I don't think it should ever be used for punishment because it is such a delicate area and it's waaaaay too easy to do serious damage.

[Kitten4DADDY]

Yes we like hair play as well. He will pull it or wrap it around my neck. It just depends on his mood at the time. It is all good in my opinion...

[ChainsOfGonzo]

I always liked the idea of anal sex, but never found a partner who did it right until I got older. To this day, anal sex is something I will only do with the right person, even though I do very much enjoy it.

My Master loves anal sex and we do it pretty frequently. Perhaps more than "regular" sex. He does it in just the right way so that it hurts a tiny bit, but mostly just feels really good. It also helps that his penis isn't ridiculous - I lost my anal virginity to a guy who had no business in ANYONE'S unloosened ass, and not much business in a petite girl's pussy either. Master's is the perfect size for everything (guys who think that a 9-inch penis is always good, please take note...).

It isn't a punishment for us. It is part of my general service to him. And I do enjoy it. We do "anal training" when I am away to keep me "in form" (I do tend to close up pretty tight since I'm rather small).

Anal, in my experience, is a bit like BDSM itself. It's the kind of thing that most people don't do right, and one bad experience can be powerful enough to put you off of ever doing it again.

But if you get it right, it can be tons of fun.

[rooshoe]

Anal, in my experience, is a bit like BDSM itself. It's the kind of thing that most people don't do right, and one bad experience can be powerful enough to put you off of ever doing it again.

But if you get it right, it can be tons of fun.

Well said!

[Alessa]

Anal is not something to be taken lightly for those just getting into it, or for seasoned veterans. My dom has me use a butt plug daily to make sure I become more comfortable with the idea of anal penetration, before we have sex. It's almost like a mind over matter dealio with me. It can be amazing if done right, but if done wrong, it could not only hurt, but also there might be health problems if any ripping occurs internally. So like many people said use enough lube to make things as comfortable as possible, and there are things available to ease you into it. I find vibrating plugs work wonders, or you can find some anal lubricants that desensitize a little bit for anyone that finds anal a bit too much to handle at first. After a while, it gets more comfortable and your body no longer panics.

It is much fun and my dom enjoys himself immensely. I am just glad I was blessed with one who takes my comfort zones and interests heavily into account.

[Ownedfyre (mm1)]

I had the most powerful orgasm I have EVER had in my life from anal sex. I was completely immobile for like half an hour afterward.

Damn straight I like it!

[stripedangel]

Oh, i'm definitely into it. However, i take plenty of prep time (including enemas), if i know it will be happening in advance, and make sure i eat alot of fiber. i am just not into the.......mess..........

We use no lube. i rather like it that way, as lube takes away from the sensation for me. i like the pain, what can i say, i am masochist! Most people tend to work to relax the muscles down there and stretch things a bit before penetration...but we don't. We are careful and if the area is too tight, Master slows down and eases up on the force of his stroke....or even stops altogether if it seems that i am having difficulty.

i am small as well, in those areas, and it took some time to get to the point that i'm at with the ability to take it in such a manner...and we do still revert to the original ways sometimes, using a finger or two, usually as foreplay.

Orgasms are massive for me, the g-spot can be found easily this way and omg if you stimulate the clit at the same time ..........................................all i can say is WOW.

[angelic.zest]

OMG i cant believe i missed this thread *pouts* I love anal!..Just in case you all didnt get that, I LOVE ANAL! Love anal sex, anal toys, anything to do with everyone my anal touched, licked, fingered, played with. I've been called a true anal whore but thats just from those who know how much i love it

Love having my hair pulled, while he taking me from behind, thrusting into me deep and hard, while he lightly bites my back, and asks me who's ass is this?....YUMMIE!

So you yeah i love some anal *blushes*

[rooshoe]

OMG i cant believe i missed this thread *pouts* I love anal!..Just in case you all didnt get that, I LOVE ANAL! Love anal sex, anal toys, anything to do with everyone my anal touched, licked, fingered, played with. I've been called a true anal whore but thats just from those who know how much i love it

Love having my hair pulled, while he taking me from behind, thrusting into me deep and hard, while he lightly bites my back, and asks me who's ass is this?....YUMMIE!

So yeah i love some anal *blushes*

Yup, that pretty much sums it up for me! If it wasn't so labor-intensive - lube, slowly opening me up, slowly inserting, clean-up - I would probably do it more than regular sex. I think I like it better than vaginal stimulation. It gets me off a *lot* faster, anyway.

-Another Anal Whore

[stripedangel]

LMAO it gets to me that there are lots out there who have no idea what they're missing!!!

[denuseri]

does my taking it up the butt and luvin it dance,,,ohh OHHH OOHH! Yeess

[Arria]

I agree to what was said by stripedangel above... and I love it the best if he chokes me during it... *sighs*

[Lady Hecate]

i actually like anal sex.
So for me, it would never be a punishment.

i do admit though..it is a very bad idea to have a man have anal sex with you, and then also let him put his cock in your pussy immediately after.
Don't know if anyone else was ever dumb enough to do that, but it can cause some yeast-infection-like problems..that last for AGES.
*sigh, wishes she had partners that weren't so dumb too*

Also, Sir Russell..almost half of everything You wrote almost gave me an orgasm too!
Damn, You are smoking hot Sir!

[moonlitsub]

Hmm... I'll throw two cents in here though I don't know how much it applies being male but I do enjoy anal, it was sort of something I tried when I was in my young teens and learned to love it. Something also about the role reversal of the female penetrating the male seems so enjoyable. Maybe its just because its like a social taboo or something.

[ineedneedles]

My husband has just recently collared me. He requested that I prep myself for anal because that is his most favorite, and when we were "vanilla" he didn't get it often. He is in the Military and gone a lot. I have never enjoyed anal and when he told me this I was scared to death, but willing to do anything for him. When he requested this he was out for 2 weeks so I bought an anal stretching kit. It consisted of 3 different size plugs and a tube of desensitizing lube. I wore one every night for that 2 weeks, starting with the small one and working my way up. He came home, bound me and went straight for my ass. I was scared but kept relaxed, there was no pain! I actually enjoyed it! Plus, he was so happy with me for opening that part of me to him. I was surprised how easy it was. Now I can't wait for him to take me! Bring on the ass fucking!!! *giggle*

[darkbutterfly]

I enjoy it from time to time, it's a delicacy to me. My Owner isn't too much into it, he thinks its okay but doesn't find it more or less appealing that vanilla sex. But I think I enjoy it more than he does, but he'll do it when I've earned a good reward and I'm ballsy enough to ask for it lol.

[THErapist]

I really feel like anal is all about the build up. I've had vanilla experiences where I either went in too hard or too fast when an inexperienced girl, and the turn outs were never good...however I was lucky enough to have an amazing experience with one of my exes where I tied her spread eagle and worked her over with wet fingers, and was amazed how much farther I was able to go and how much more enjoyable it was for her.

[kuntslave85]

This is very dependant on the person. I personally love anal and cum really hard. Anal is a regular part of my sexlife. But i have friends who have tried it and hate it.