What could you possibly lose by posting a non nude passport style photo here? Anything?

We're not talking nude pictures here. I'm not showing my penis in any of my pics, am I? This is really not a big deal. Everybody has a digital camera. So you can't blame it on the effort. If you have issues about posting your picture here you are hiding something. It could be shame about your perceived ugliness, shyness or something similar. Are you afraid somebody in the real world you know might share your interest, (otherwise they wouldn't be here)? Well, good!

But for fucks sake, don't pretend like it isn't! Like it's some kind of honourable statement or something someone of your astute character wouldn't stoop to. It's just offensive to me that anyone would even remotely consider the possibility that I could fall for such a stupid excuse. I mean..."much more excitement in allowing ones own mind to create the imagery"... wow!!! Rampant self-deceit if I ever saw it. No, that's not what it is about at all. It's just a photo!

It's not a question of being obsessed by seeing an image. It's a nice thing. I don't really care that much if I get to see a picture of anybody here. It's your mind I'm interested in. But a photo is always nice.

So you think you look bad in photos? Welcome to the human race. We all think we look worse in photos than in "reality". Get over it.

Do you think you're too over-weight to be liked? Even if it were true that somebody you like aren't attracted to some cushioning, its good to get that out of the way as early as possible, isn't it? What would you prefer being rejected by a guy you've got something serious going with or somebody you simply fancy.

It really isn't a big deal.