I see myself in somewhat the same light- however, I have an advantage in that I know I'm not misogynistic because I have much the same feelings and fantasies about guys as girls. But I still know the feeling- it's important to let your inner monsters and demons have their time to play; that way they're distracted and satisfied and not sawing the floor out from underneath you. As long as you can put them back in their box when playtime is done, then I don't think it's anything to be concerned about.