me being a selfprofessed switch.... agreeing with Craven and Ashton .. pretty much sums a lot of it up for me. As for Denuser's #4 ... there is ALWAYS someone somewhere who will dominate someone else, even if that person professes to be a total dom/domme .... it's the human nature thing ( clarifing that relationships can be very complicated, or simple depending on the circumstances ). Besides all that, I'm ok with having fun with who ever I may encounter ... hehe besides ... I like the sex ( guess it makes me enjoy the simple things in life ... for the relationship part .. well we just work it at it each day the best we can :-)