I often hesitate to revert to my old USMC language but I have the feeling this calls for it. What goddamn manual did these "rules" come out of and who is the goddamn author?
Shit! When did we come under the BDSM General Orders? "Sir, my first BDSM order is to take charge of this sub and all government subs in view". I don't think so. You have a good sub, treat her like a queen. The lady I'm talking to now,if we ever do get together,she will never have any doubt that she is loved and adored.