words differ from person to person, some men like to be belittled for cock size, others for their ability to support those they love, for many just being called a slut, bitch, fag,cum bucket,cum guzzling cock sucker ( usually only works if in fact the do suck cock, but if you do strap on play the words some times put the boy in the right mind set), many of these words work for me and mine. I hope this helps and if it does and you would like some other ideas please feel free to contact me , and I will help if I can. Wyked