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still learning myself so bare with me. speeking from my exsperince, a master that knows you well and cares about you WILL push you. Though never a point that you can not handle. If you are in a situation that you can not handle, emotionaly, mentaly physicly you need to be able to comunicate that with a safe word or a "yellow" word safe meaning OH MY GOD STOP EVERYTHING and yellow meaning hey I need to talk to you this is a bit much. D/S is FUN thing its a way to enjoy the person you are sharing it with. Your master should not be angry with you if you cant handle something because at the end of the play he should still care for you regardless of how your play time went. The whole point is the pleasureregardless of what method you use to get it. SO long story short talk to your dom if he's unwilling to hear how you feel and work with you on it. You may want to reconsider your choice in a dom
hope I helpedalways here if you need to talk!